Thursday, November 12, 2015

So What Do You Do?

We as women, get asked often, "so what do you do?"  This question can either depress you or give you an opportunity to embellish the truth.  I remember a day sitting there with my 4th brand new baby girl.  Women from my church had come by to visit.  "So what do you do, do you have any hobbies?"  I started to tear up as I realized I had no answer.  Hobbies?! I barely leave my house.  My highlight is going to the grocery store all by myself and taking my sweet time.  Possibly lying about how long the checkout line is so I can sit in the car a little longer in peace.  So no I don't have hobbies unless you count laundry.   After a minute, I tell them I scrapbook, hoping that will make me sound less homely.  And by scrap-booking I mean printing out pictures and putting them in one of those cheap plastic photo pages and placing it in a 3 ring binder. 
Ten years later,  I try not to sigh when asked this question.  Still just as busy and no time to myself.  I am a professional dance mom, cheer mom, soccer mom, and my hobby is how to turn my SUV into a traveling circus and be three places at once.   And don't forget still act like the love Goddess your husband still thinks you have the energy to be.  Do I have a hobby? Get real.   If I could fit in a nap every day, I would claim that as my hobby.